How Your Mindset May Effect Your Business Transaction | Arizona

Hello, I’m Michelle Lombino, a partner at Jaburg & Wilk, and a business lawyer and certified understanding-based mediator.

Having a Positive Mind

Frequently when people are entering into deals, the positive mindset dominates. They’re very eager, they’re very excited to get the deal done. They’re willing to compromise with the other party. But at the same time– oftentimes that is, they will rush through things they don’t want to confront or address issues that they fear might derail their deal.

It is fashionable to tap the virtues of the positive mind; and the positive mind is beneficial. It focuses on what works, on results, it’s action oriented. But if the positive mind dominates, parties may be easily fooled. They may not consider the risks or the potential pitfalls of a problem. Over the years I’ve been involved in many a litigation involving Ponzi schemes, and I’ve thought that those Ponzi schemes might be the result of the positive mind dominating.

Having a Negative Mind

Yes, at its best, the negative mind sees the risks and potential downfall of a situation. However, taken to its extreme, the negative mind can lead to anger, intolerance, and a sense of frustration. Many a settlement negotiation has fallen apart because the negative mind has predominated.

Changing Your Mindset

Yes, first by recognizing the benefit of using both the positive mind and the negative mind, and using both approaches. And second, by cultivating a neutral mind that can consider both what could go right and what could go wrong, and from that place deciding the best approach.

By: Michelle Lombino